Are You Attracted to Avoidant Men — or Are You Just Mistaking Intensity for Chemistry?
If you keep finding yourself drawn to emotionally unavailable men—men who pull away just when things start to feel real, men who are inconsistent, men who give you just enough attention to keep you hoping—it’s easy to assume you’re “attracted to avoidant types.” But often, something else is happening beneath the surface: You’re mistaking intensity…